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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Basketball Ethos --- Hardscrabble lessons from the black tar


Venice Beach -- 2nd most renowned public basketball court in the world



Preface --- I write here from the perspective of an adolescent. Having survived and thrived on the city of Pawtucket playgrounds with all its seedy characters gave a kid a certain swagger, a certain hard scrabble status. It didn't last long, after varsity Saint Raphael high school sports I finally turned my focus to academic life. And was stoutly humbled -- swagger gone. But it was a moment in time worth capturing. Part funny, part adventure, part passage. A boys stepping out.

Basketball Ethos --- There's a certain culture unique to basketball. More so, there’s a special culture of pickup public court basketball. It’s experienced by those who traveled to neighborhood courts for pickup games. It's different than the ethos of the varsity squad. It has its own cadence, its own color; it is somewhat slapstick but yet has a certain propriety. There was an unspoken Zen to it, before the kids knew was Zen meant. You had to get what it was all about – read what was in the air. There were no spoken words – – but yet everyone was communicating.

It's a certain crazy-ass culture, colorful, meeting people from very different backgrounds but yet sharing the brotherhood of the public basketball courts. Part of the shared culture is the love of the game, part the laughter and trash-talking. You had to be good at the game and good at the trash talking, yet knowing its unspoken boundaries. Forty or fifty years later some brilliant psychologist (Daniel Goleman) figured out that this was 'emotional intelligence'. Hell, we all knew that.

A lot of kids just never get this, particularly the proper, well-schooled kids – – they knew they don't fit in, and everybody on the public courts knew they didn’t fit in. Wearing expensive sneakers or, god forbid, attending summer camp was the kiss of death. You had to be from the lower rungs of society, from lower middle-class down. Any hint of the upper-class was immediate disqualification --- the worse was tennis, summer camp, your parents dropping you off (we all hitchhiked). You would be made fun of and unceremoniously drummed off the courts – worse yet, you get ‘pants-ed’ (don’t ask). There was a poetic justice that favored the underclass --- a leveling based on grit and emotional IQ – the melting pot under-class weeding out the upper-class.

I experienced this in my Fairlawn neighborhood in Pawtucket RI. You could experience this in your neighborhood but to get the full Monty you had travel to other neighborhoods. It was best when you didn't know anybody. There was a meeting of the eye, demonstrating a good jump shot, a wink and a nod -- you would get a sense of the place. Incredibly, the basketball court was always safe even when the surrounding neighborhood was not. With this simple backyard salute and streetwise presence gained you an acknowledgment and instant membership. No words were spoken, yet you knew you belonged. After an intense and good sporting run of games, the newfound friends would make sure to escort you safely off the court and through the neighborhood.


Fairness was a big part of it. Sides were picked up to be even. The strong and weak spread evenly over two teams – – the heavy kids, the young kids, the unathletic kids, distributed evenly with the most athletic and cunning of the bunch. After this perfect win-win negotiation, once again with no rules and no referees, what follows is an intense body on body, in your face competition. One side with shirts off, driving to the hoop with somebody draped on your hip, moving a weak guy out from rebound position, blocking a shot. Where other 'organized' basketball has referees and explicit rules, this neighborhood stuff is just as intense, and completely unregulated. Bodies slamming bodies, intensely competitive and yet completely fair -- a fairness that transcended culture, income level, age, and background. That's magic. For me, after years in the business world with it's unethical, quick to take advantage of, basement ethics --- public court basketball stands out as a model of what people are capable of. Voluntary good conduct under duress, with a sense of humor and mutual respect. The neighborhood code of conduct --- voluntary and unspoken, yet honored.

Pickup basketball is very different than sandlot baseball and certainly different from football that is seldom played full out without referees and pads. Pickup BB is intense physical in your face competition, spontaneous within a social covenant that remains unspoken. It's partly the magic of youth, partly the magic of serendipity across cultures, partly an American melting pot phenomenon.

The closest experience for me was the United States Army, especially the infantry school at Fort Benning. The trick was to get along and also excel with people of all different backgrounds – – where similarly much of the cooperation happens without words. The Army calls this leadership and the esprit de corps. At a deep level, the combat arms troops depend upon exactly this bonding. Our Marine Corps and Infantry Army soldiers do not fight because of patriotism or the training – – they fight because they have each other's backs. It's the camaraderie and bonding that enables them to go beyond extraordinary circumstances.

The youthful pickup basketball is not lost with age. Many of us steeped in this played well into our adulthood, as long as our bodies allowed. Even now in my 70s I connect with people who have shared this experience. From all over the country. It's a universal boyhood rite of passage. Many kids never make this seminal passage. It takes place before kids know what seminal or Zen or passage means. It takes an adventurous spirit and frequenting parts of town that are off-limits to proper boys. Most of the best basketball courts are in the worst neighborhoods.

I now play a lot of tennis which in a small way re-creates some of this teenage Zen. Tennis is the antithesis of pickup basketball with its trash talking and in-your-face mentality – – tennis is ‘nice shot’, apologizing when the ball dribbles across the net’s right side. The emotions are all bottled up instead of the catharsis release of trash talking on the black tar. But still, there's a sliver of the tennis experience that holds the same allure.

You would think in my 70s all of this is so far forgotten and gone. Not so. Some of my best conversations are with people from the same world. The conversation takes wings once you recognize a pickup brother – – the hilarious courts, colorful characters, rims with no nets, half inflated basketballs -- the rush, the thrill. The Zen and poetry of it all.

I go on and on about this, because somebody should. This experience had a lot to do with my character formation, and I have spent most of my life looking to re-create this kind of magic, the bonding and the flow of physical athleticism and competition. The thrill of learning how to shoot a jump shot while your body and mind are maturing. The thrill of driving to the basket muscling somebody on your left side as you lift off and stretch to the hoop. The delicious thrill stays with you all your life, and you spend much of your life trying to re-create that special transcendence and physical magic.

The best I can do at this point is tell the story. The story needs telling. For any brother of the public pavement, the story rings a spiritual bell, long gone but never forgotten.

My professional career was as a mathematician/entrepreneur, and I had a crazy topsy-turvy adulthood. Surviving and embracing the neighborhood basketball courts gave me instincts that had a lot to do with succeeding as an entrepreneur. The craziness was not new.

Venice Beach 


There's a point to all this rambling. I had a chance to re-create this in my late 50s. I had stopped playing basketball at age 50 because of repeated injuries that took way too long to heal. When I was 57, my son Timothy and I were at a computer conference in downtown Los Angeles which ended midday Friday, leaving us the afternoon. Looking at the map we decided to go to the ocean, and I recognized Venice Beach. I had a vague memory that there was something out of the ordinary about Venice Beach.

Tim and I parked the rental car about four or five blocks south of Venice Beach and took off our jackets and ties. As we walked north along the Venice beach promenade things seem to get crazier by the block. We went by Muscle Beach where musclebound narcissistic men took pleasure in making a side-show spectacle of themselves. Tim and I took notice – ‘so there is the famous Muscle Beach’.

Just beyond all the weightlifters was the real gem -- three basketball courts all fully occupied with full-court games. Black men were racing up and down with hang-dog intensity and trash talk --- music to my ears. Between the basketball courts and the Promenade was a three-tier set of bleachers, with young black girls with their boomboxes at full volume. It turns out that the Venice Beach basketball courts are the number one famous public courts in the US -- made all the more famous by the 1992 movie ‘White men can't jump’. Number two is Rucker Park in New York City.

Here it was, the big league of pickup basketball. Venice Beach, the Mecca of my boyhood dreams. There was no way I would pass this up. Tim sort of got it, but I was the instigator.
I asked someone who looked sane, ‘where can you get sneakers around here’. The guy pointed me north a couple of blocks and down an alley. The deals were great because everything was ‘hot’. We bought new Nike sneakers and shorts for next to nothing – everything was stolen.


Back to the rental car, quick change, back to the courts.

On the first court, there was a break in the game; Tim and I walked on – – the only white men. Everything stopped, the second two courts stopped and the music stopped. We were escorted to the second court -- game interrupted a game to pick up new sides. Tim got chosen in the second round, and the ‘old white guy’ was the very last to be picked.

We started playing and young black man, more athletic and taller, gave me a good hip under the boards -- I gave him a good laugh and a return hip --- we both laughed. We ran up and down the court, jawing trash talk back and forth. Tim played well, he could still drive and shoot. I concentrated on defense, set some good pics, locked people out rebounding. Tim played fairly seriously. I did too, but the larger narrative intrigued me. Particularly the trash talking -- talking trash to brothers you had just met.

That certain basket Zen came back --- pushing, shoving, up and down the courts, talking trash – you lose yourself. A workout way beyond what I can do on my silly exercise bike. The moment was delicious, the black athletes laughing and talking trash, Tim a participant and a witness, me home again.

We played several games. Switching sides several times. Lost in the flow and excitement. The Mecca of neighborhood basketball. How sweet it was.

We stopped, high-fives all the way around and some chest bumps. The young gifted black athletes got the Zen of it – the gritty old man back home again. They could tell.

We were in a sea of black, the only whites on the courts. I felt completely safe, what’s more, I felt at home.

Tim and I got a slice of pizza and a Diet Coke at a sidewalk carryout overlooking the courts. We watched a few more games and congratulated ourselves for the great afternoon – high fives.

I had a deeper appreciation for all of this than Tim. My life had come full circle from the playgrounds of Pawtucket to Venice Beach, and I was sharing this with my son Tim.

I didn't try to explain, just savored the moment. 

Venice Beach Revisited

I went back in November 2005 after my tennis team had played in Palm Springs, about three hours away. I had an afternoon to kill waiting for the 11 pm Redeye from Los Angeles to Baltimore. I parked my rental car in the same spot Tim and I had used 16 years earlier, and took the same walk north to the courts.

Tim had been gone since October 2001.

I was looking for something to hang on to. I felt Tim walking along side of me.

The place didn't seem so edgy. Many buxom young girls, skating along the promenade, seemed the new main attraction.

Alone. I felt a bit out of place but found a place to eat overlooking the same three basketball courts.

The waiter asked ' what brings you to Venice Beach?’.

I said 'memories' with a wink and closed the conservation. I was sharing this with Tim and didn’t want an interruption.

Memories indeed. Memories of the culture of the hard courts and memories of Tim. Memories of the best parts of my life.


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